An explanation is in order
Posted By Arlodas on November 30, 2009
Hello any and all.
I want to first apologize for not writing and say that my period of silence here at Casually legendary is now at an end.
As such – an explanation is in order.
You see – for reasons that I have begun to accept and work through, my marriage of nearly five years is slowly coming to an end.
I was focused on myself and ignored the warnings my wife gave me that she could not take things as they were much longer – for the past couple of years. I was very selfish and though my wife pleaded with me to change, I thought that I had all the time in the world to do so.
That was my mistake.
We are on good terms and nothing is final. We are still actually living under the same roof as we care for our daughter. But sometime in 2010 – we will separate and divorce (unless she accepts my willingness to change now.) I have been doing everything I can for the past couple of months to show her that we can try and rebuild our foundation that I played a hefty part in destroying. The blame was not fully in my court, but it is what it is. I love her deeply to no end and though we still are married and live together, I also miss her to no end.
But, that is neither here nor there and once again, Arlodas is ready to accept his fate in Middle Earth.
On my own new adventure, I will be returning to podcasting. Weekly, and writing probably a couple times a week. The format is most likely going to change just a bit – but I promise that things should be more consistent and easy to follow. The time of the show may be reduced to about 30 or 45 minutes. I want to continue providing a quality podcast and hope that you all are willing to continue to listen. But – It will continue being from a casual standpoint.
Now more than ever – I hope that many of you write in to the show. It not only encourages me to continue (knowing people are actually listening) but it helps me provide content for the show.
I would love at least a response to this post. I hope I didn’t lose too many during this absence. And if so, I hope to get you to return.
I should have a pod ready sometime toward the end of this week. Most likely on the release of Siege of Mirkwood. Hope to hear from you soon!
.Arlodas